A baby who cries a lot isn’t a bad baby

 A baby who cries a lot isn’t a bad baby.

They’re not spoiled.
They’re not trying to manipulate you.
They’re not doing anything wrong.

They’re communicating the only way they know how.
They’re asking for love, comfort, connection or safety.

You’re not doing anything wrong either.
You’re not too soft for responding.
You’re not creating bad habits by holding them.

You’re teaching them that their needs matter.
That their voice will be heard.
That they are safe in your arms.

It’s okay if it feels hard.
It’s okay if it feels overwhelming sometimes.
But your love is exactly what they need.
And you’re doing an amazing job.