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  Wanneer een ouder met narcistische trekken een conflict belangrijker vindt dan het welzijn van zijn kinderen, kunnen hun emotionele behoeften gemakkelijk naar de achtergrond verdwijnen. In plaats van te luisteren naar wat hun kinderen nodig hebben om zich veilig, geliefd en begrepen te voelen, draait het mogelijk vooral om gelijk krijgen, controle behouden of de ander verslaan. Dit kan bijzonder pijnlijk worden tijdens een scheiding of een conflict over de opvoeding. Kinderen kunnen ongewild betrokken raken bij ruzies die niet van hen zijn. Soms voelen ze zich gedwongen om partij te kiezen, worden ze geconfronteerd met negatieve verhalen over de andere ouder of krijgen ze het gevoel dat ze verantwoordelijk zijn voor de emoties van volwassenen. Daardoor kan de veilige basis die ze nodig hebben, veranderen in een omgeving vol spanning en onzekerheid. Wanneer dit patroon zich herhaalt, kunnen kinderen leren om hun eigen gevoelens te verbergen om conflicten te vermijden. Ze worden mi...

  Barbara La Marr (July 28, 1896 – January 30, 1926) La Marr was an actress and known as "The Girl Who Is Too Beautiful". She actually began working as a screenwriter, but made her on camera debut with Douglas Fairbanks in The Nut (1921), and quickly became a star with her beauty and talent. Although her film career flourished, she also embraced the fast-paced Hollywood nightlife, remarking in an interview that she slept no more than two hours a night. La Marr began abusing drugs and alcohol and reportedly developed a cocaine and heroin habit. Her lifestyle eventually began to affect her career and she was dropped by M-G-M. The drug and alcohol use began to take its toll, and she developed nephritis and tuberculosis, which ultimately ended her life at age 29. Barbara La Marr is interred at Hollywood Forever Cemetery.

Helen of Troy.....The Face That Launched a Thousand Ships . In Greek mythology, Helen of Troy is a character in Homer's epic poem, the Iliad. ... However, there is no solid evidence to suggest that Helen was a real person. The first written record of Helen is in the Iliad but the origins of the myth that surrounds her dates back to the Bronze Age. Helen of Troy almost certainly never existed as a historical figure. The Iliad and the Odyssey were probably mostly composed during the early seventh century BC, but the events they describe are set in the twelfth century BC, roughly five hundred years earlier. We have solid archaeological evidence that Troy was indeed a real city, but nothing to support the historicity of the Trojan War, nor do we have any evidence to support the existence of any of the individual characters in the poems. The characters in the Iliad and the Odyssey and in later Greek legends about the war, are all almost certainly fictional, including Helen. The who...

Staven acht en ridder van zwaarden! Magie. Je krijgt helderheid in jouw situatie, waardoor je beter je verlangens, je wensen en dromen kunt uiten. De woorden vinden om anderen te vertellen waar jij je bevindt en welk pad jij wilt lopen, is niet altijd makkelijk geweest. Hoe meer je je eigen waarheid omarmt, straal je deze ook uit. Er zijn niet altijd woorden nodig om te vertellen wat jij op je hart hebt. Jouw uitstraling, jouw energie doet dat wat woorden niet altijd kunnen. Deze energieën zijn de vertaler van de magie in jezelf. ------------------- Eight of wands and knight of swords! Magic. You are getting clearity in your sitiuation, that is why you can express your desires, wishes and dreams more clearly. To find the words to tell others where you are and which path you want to take, had not always been easy. The more you embrace your truth, the more you will radiate this. It is not always nescessary to use words to tell what is in your heart. Your appearance, your energy is doing ...

27 SPIRITUAL PARTNERSHIP This card indicates a time when a significant spiritual relationship is about to be forged. Perhaps it comes in the form of a friendship between like-minded souls on a similar journey toward enlightenment. Or maybe it's a master/ disciple relationship where an important individual enters your life. The saying goes, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear," and when yours arrives, he or she will assist you in expanding your spiritual growth. During the course of this relationship, you will play the role of both teacher and student, and the wisdom gained from this experience will enhance your connection to Source. Perhaps a spiritually minded person will broaden your understanding of the Divine. Maybe you become a catalyst in another's spiritual journey and help that individual on his or her path. Regardless of the form this spiritual relationship takes, it will serve your greater good. In order to improve your current situation, ...

  Een gezonde relatie geeft je ruimte om lief te hebben zonder dat je andere belangrijke verbindingen hoeft op te offeren. Toch kan emotionele controle er geleidelijk voor zorgen dat je je schuldig voelt wanneer je tijd doorbrengt met vrienden, contact houdt met familie of activiteiten onderneemt zonder je partner. Wat eerst een normale vorm van zelfstandigheid was, begint steeds meer aan te voelen als iets waarvoor je je moet verantwoorden. In het begin lijkt het misschien onschuldig. Je partner voelt zich buitengesloten, vraagt meer aandacht of reageert teleurgesteld wanneer je anderen ziet. Maar wanneer zulke reacties steeds terugkeren, kun je je gedrag gaan aanpassen om conflicten te vermijden. Je zegt vaker afspraken af, deelt minder over je vriendschappen en probeert voortdurend te bewijzen dat je relatie op de eerste plaats komt. Langzaam kan je wereld kleiner worden. De mensen die je steun, perspectief en emotionele veiligheid bieden, verdwijnen steeds verder naar de achter...

   De Spirituele Coupe Bananensplit  Drie bollen wijsheid — zacht, zoet en eerlijk. Een banaan als basis: stevig, vertrouwd, een beetje krom, net als het leven. Chocoladesaus voor de schaduwstukken — donker, rijk, intens… maar o zo nodig. Slagroom als lichtheid — luchtig, speels, een knipoog van de ziel. En de kers bovenop? Jij. Want jij maakt het af. Met jouw unieke smaak, jouw eigen verhaal, jouw innerlijke glans. Een echte coupe Bananensplit is niet bedoeld om snel op te eten. Die is er om van te genieten. Laag voor laag. Moment voor moment. Net als het leven zelf. Zet je lepel maar in het nu. Je bent precies goed zo.

  John Herrick McIntire (June 27, 1907 – January 30, 1991) He appeared in sixty-five theatrical films and many more television series. McIntire is best known for having replaced Ward Bond, upon Bond's sudden death in November 1960, as the star of NBC's Wagon Train. He played Christopher Hale, the leader of the wagon train (and successor to Bond's character, Seth Adams) from early 1961 to the series' end in 1965. He also replaced Charles Bickford, upon Bickford's death in 1967, as ranch owner Clay Grainger (brother of Bickford's character) on NBC's The Virginian for four seasons. His films included the film noir classic, The Asphalt Jungle (1950), the 1960 Hitchcock thriller Psycho and the 1960 drama Elmer Gantry starring Burt Lancaster, but some of his more memorable roles were in westerns such as the acclaimed The Far Country (1955), with James Stewart, and The Tin Star (1957) with Henry Fonda. In Anthony Mann's superb Winchester '73, McIntire memor...

24 april 1112 - Dood van graaf D. Hendrik van Portugal Het zou naar alle waarschijnlijkheid kunnen worden gezegd dat de Graaf van Portucale, D. Henrique, was de grootvader van Portugal. Dom Henrique, vader van El-Rei Dom Afonso I Henriques, was de vierde. de zoon van Henrique de Bourgondië, dus behorend tot de hertogelijke familie van Bourgondië, en daarmee een achterkleinzoon van Robert I van Frankrijk en achterkleinzoon van de abt S. Hugo de Cluny, en broer van ook hertogen Odo I en Hugo I. D. Henrique, niet eerstgeboren, maakte het leven als kruisvaarder, werd aangetrokken door de gebieden met het grootste gevaar en vanaf hier kun je zijn komst naar het Iberisch schiereiland begrijpen, waar de heroverwinning van de Moren riskanter was. Portucale stond onder Saracaanse overheersing sinds 711 en in 868 heroverde de Galicische Vimara Peres, vazal van de Leeuwenkoning, Galicië en Asturië de regio tussen Douro en Minho, inclusief Portucale, en stichtte het eerste graafschap Portucale, zo...

  Samuel Goldwyn, born Szmuel Gelbfisz (August 17, 1879 – January 31, 1974) He was most well known for being the founding contributor and executive of several motion picture studios in Hollywood. His awards include the 1973 Golden Globe Cecil B. DeMille Award, the Irving G. Thalberg Memorial Award in 1947, and the Jean Hersholt Humanitarian Award in 1958. For 35 years, Goldwyn built a reputation in filmmaking and developed an eye for finding the talent for making films. William Wyler directed many of his most celebrated productions, and he hired writers such as Ben Hecht, Sidney Howard, Dorothy Parker, and Lillian Hellman. During that time, Goldwyn made numerous films and reigned as the most successful independent producer in the US. Many of his films were forgettable; his collaboration with John Ford, however, resulted in Best Picture Oscar nomination for Arrowsmith (1931). William Wyler was responsible for most of Goldwyn's highly lauded films, with Best Picture Oscar nominations...

I used to think I was the strangest person in the world but then I thought there are so many people in the world, there must be someone just like me who feels bizarre and flawed in the same ways I do. I would imagine her, and imagine that she must be out there thinking of me too. Well, I hope that if you are out there and read this and know that, yes, it's true I'm here, and I'm just as strange as you. ~Frida Kahlo (Book: The Diary of Frida Kahlo https://amzn.to/424dnTt )

Zwaarden aas en de zegewagen! De naakte waarheid. Het kan lastig zijn om jouw waarheid onder ogen te zien. Om te voelen dat je beslissingen in het verleden hebt gemaakt die jou niet de liefdevolle ervaringen hebben gebracht waar je op hoopte. Je bent je bewust dat je deze keuzes gemaakt hebt vanuit afhankelijkheid geleerd in je jeugd. Nu kom je erachter dat jij een eigen waarheid hebt. Dat jij je eigen leven kunt sturen. En dat je aan niemand verantwoording hoeft af te leggen. Neem de touwtjes van je eigen leven in handen en stuur die richting uit waar jij blij van wordt. ----------------------- Ace of swords and the chariot! The naked truth. It can be difficult to clearly see your truth. To feel that the descisions that you made in the past, did not bring you the loving experience you were hoping for. You are aware that the choices you made were from co-dependancy which you have learned in your upbringin. Now you see that you have your own truth. That you can direct your own life. And...

  Mary Elizabeth Patterson (November 22, 1874 – January 31, 1966) She was a theater, film, and television character actress who gained popular recognition late in her career playing the elderly neighbor Matilda Trumbull on the television comedy series I Love Lucy. In 1913, she made her Broadway debut in the play Everyman. She remained active in New York City theatre through 1954. In 1926, at the age of 51, Patterson was cast in her first movie, a silent film, The Boy Friend. Transitioning successfully into the era of "talkies", she remained a very busy actress in Hollywood throughout the 1930s, averaging more than five films a year during that decade, usually in supporting roles. A few of her screen credits at that time include Tarnished Lady; Husband's Holiday; A Bill of Divorcement; So Big!; The Story of Temple Drake; Hold Your Man; Dinner at Eight; High, Wide, and Handsome; and No Man of Her Own. She also appeared in the role of Susan in two adaptations of John Willard...

Als het leven niet verandert... Verander de manier waarop je naar dingen kijkt. Cartoonist: Victor Solís

  I called her after five years. Strangely enough, she had never changed her number. Almost as if she had been waiting. When she picked up, my whole body trembled. Her voice sounded so happy. In the background, I could hear children laughing. After her “Hello?” I lost the ability to speak. I had no idea what to say. I was happy for her, but at the same time, something inside my chest broke. Five years earlier, she had told me she would love me forever. I laughed then and said: “You’ll find your happiness one day.” But deep down, I knew she was not lying. Still, I walked away from her. When she said “Hello?” again, I hung up. I held the phone so tightly in my hand that my fingers hurt. A few minutes later, a text message came through. It was from her. “Hi, Ryan. I was waiting for your call. I really hoped I would hear your voice. But you got scared, just like you did back then. Now I can finally turn this phone off. I know why you called. You wanted to know if I still love you. Yes,...