When you become a mother

 When you become a mother, some friendships shift. Some drift away slowly, others break all at once. And it hurts because you thought they’d be there forever. But the truth is, not every friendship is meant to last through every version of you.

Motherhood changes you. Your priorities shift. Your heart expands in ways that are hard to explain. Suddenly, small talk isn’t enough. You crave connection that understands sleepless nights, endless worries, and the love that fills every corner of your soul.

I’ve let go of friendships that couldn’t weather the storm. I wish them well. I hold the memories with love. But I don’t miss who I had to be to keep those connections alive.

I’ve outgrown who I was. And I’m proud of who I am now. I wouldn’t go back. I’m exactly where I’m meant to be.