Tikje Anders - My Life, My Blog

  It’s not my turn to sleep in. It’s not my turn to chase dreams without checking the clock. It’s not my turn to put my wants and needs at the top of the list. But it is my turn. It’s my turn to rock little bodies that only want mama. To answer a thousand questions before 9 a.m. To pour my love into tiny moments that may never be seen but are always felt. It’s my turn to witness the magic of firsts. To hold hands that still reach for me without hesitation. To soak up this exhausting, beautiful, raw season of motherhood. This won’t always be my turn. But right now, it is. And I’m holding it close. Even on the hard days. Even when I miss the old me. Because one day, I’ll miss this me too.

  She’s half little gymnast half princess one minute she’s flipping off the couch doing tiny jumps like her feet can’t stay still turning my living room into her own little arena landing crooked then clapping for herself like she just won something the next she’s spinning in circles holding the edges of her dress like she’s in a world softer than this one like there’s music only she can hear she’s scraped knees and glitter trails fearless enough to fall soft enough to still believe and i won’t ask her to pick one because girls like her were never meant to

Marilyn Monroe as Pola Debevoise in How to Marry a Millionaire a 1953 American romantic comedy film directed by Jean Negulesco. The film also stars Betty Grable and Lauren Bacall as three fashionable Manhattan models, along with William Powell, David Wayne, Rory Calhoun, and Cameron Mitchell as their wealthy marks. Although Grable received top billing in the screen credits, Monroe's name was listed first in all advertising, including the trailer.

  So I’ve been rewatching Little House on the Prairie and suddenly feeling like I was born in the wrong century. I loved it as a kid, but I think I appreciate it even more now. Everything just looks so simple. Family dinners, neighbors helping each other, no social media or spam calls. I told someone the other day I wanted to live back then. They didn’t even blink before saying something like “You’d last about five minutes without Wi-Fi, hot showers, and an indoor toilet.” Rude. But also….accurate. Okay, let’s be honest. I don’t actually want to travel by wagon, haul water from a well, or use an outhouse, but there is something beautiful about the way they valued family, faith, and community. The way they cared and showed up for each other is something I wish we could bring back. Or maybe I’m just crushing on Charles Ingalls in his suspenders. Either way, if you want something different from the usual noise, something people online would probably call “wholesome,” and something tha...

  George C. Scott (1927–1999) was one of the most formidable actors of his time, known for his intense screen presence, uncompromising standards, and refusal to conform to Hollywood’s norms. Born in Wise, Virginia, and raised in Detroit, Scott served in the U.S. Marine Corps before studying drama at the University of Missouri. He began his career in theater, earning acclaim for his work in Shakespeare and modern drama. Transitioning to film in the late 1950s, Scott quickly established himself as a forceful performer, earning an Oscar nomination for Anatomy of a Murder (1959). His early film work showcased his commanding voice and ability to dominate a scene without overshadowing the story. Scott’s most iconic role came as General George S. Patton in Patton (1970), a performance that won him the Academy Award for Best Actor—though he famously refused the award, criticizing the Oscars as a “meat parade.” This act cemented his reputation as fiercely independent and uninterested in Hol...

Peter Brown, born Pierre Lind de Brown on October 5, 1935, in New York City, became a notable figure in television Westerns throughout the 1960s and 1970s. He gained prominence through his role as Deputy Johnny McKay on NBC’s Lawman (1958–1962), where he played a young, energetic lawman learning the ropes under Marshal Dan Troop. Brown’s performance combined youthful enthusiasm with determination, appealing to audiences and creating a dynamic partnership with the seasoned actor John Russell. This role cemented his place in the pantheon of TV Western stars and opened doors for future television projects. Following Lawman, Peter Brown starred in Laredo (1965–1967), portraying Texas Ranger Chad Cooper. The series showcased Brown’s ability to blend action, humor, and charm, further solidifying his status as a leading actor in the Western genre. His work was characterized by a consistent portrayal of strong, reliable, and morally upright characters who embodied the values of justice and loy...

  Guy Madison was an American actor who became a symbol of rugged charm and Western heroism in mid-20th-century Hollywood. Born in Pumpkin Center, California, Madison was originally a radio announcer before entering the world of acting. His towering presence, blond good looks, and affable personality helped him secure his first leading roles in Hollywood films during the late 1940s. Madison quickly became associated with the Western genre, starring in films that highlighted his heroism and charismatic screen presence. Madison’s most iconic role was as Wild Bill Hickok in the long-running television series The Adventures of Wild Bill Hickok (1951–1958). His portrayal was praised for balancing toughness with relatability, capturing audiences with a blend of action and humor. Madison also appeared in a range of films, from adventure stories to dramas, showcasing his adaptability. Despite his popularity, he faced challenges in maintaining the momentum of his career as Hollywood evolved...

  Before having kids you see other moms talking about how they didn’t feel like themself after giving birth but until you’re there for yourself it’s hard to truly understand how long it actually takes to feel like yourself again after having a baby. They’ll warn you about the sleepless nights. The diaper changes. The cluster feeding. But nothing can prepare you for the way your sense of self disappears. You become a body that gives and gives. A body that’s not just yours anymore. Especially if you’re breastfeeding. You miss yourself. The old version of you. The one who could shower without rushing. The one who felt confident in her skin. The one who didn’t have to plan her day around feeding schedules. They say it gets better. And it does. But no one says it might take years. No one tells you that healing isn’t just physical. If you’re in that space right now, I want you to know you’re not alone. You’re not failing because you don’t feel “back to normal.” You’re rebuilding. Slowly....

  She’s half glitter half dirt sparkles in her hair mud on her dress she’ll twirl like she’s made of magic then crash into the world like she owns it she’s soft enough to hold your hand wild enough to let it go she’s not “too much” she’s just everything at once and i won’t teach her to tone it down just so the world feels more comfortable because girls like her don’t need softening they need protecting

Grote Geest, ik voel me veilig en tevreden met het weten dat mijn spirituele gidsen bij me zijn. Ik sta open voor de flow van de goddelijke levenskracht die me omringt. Laat me anderen helpen waar ik kan, en me gezegd voelen door hemelse energie. Verlichting geeft een heldere en sterke verbinding met het goddelijke weer. Jouw spirituele gidsen en hemelse beschermers zijn dicht bij je en communiceren met je. Neem dit gevoel van vrede, dat ontstaat uit hun onvoorwaardelijke liefhebbende energie, helemaal in je op. Verlichting betekent de goedkeuring van Spirit en verzekert je ervan dat je op de juiste weg bent. Er komen gelegenheden voor je om bouwer van het licht te zijn en jouw kennis van spirit met anderen te delen. Alle levende schepsels lijken buitengewoon te worden aangetrokken door het innerlijk licht dat jij uitstraalt. Vertrouw erop dat je hoger zelf je leidt terwijl je jezelf en anderen helpt op een rustige, liefdevolle manier. Gebruik het Goddelijke licht om je in verbinding t...

Joseph Cotton and Marilyn Monroe as happily married couple George and Rose Loomis in Niagara a 1953 American film-noir thriller directed by Henry Hathaway. It was one of 20th Century Fox's biggest box-office hits that year. Monroe was given top billing in Niagara, which elevated her to star status. Her next two films, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (with Jane Russell) and How to Marry a Millionaire (with Betty Grable and Lauren Bacall) were even bigger successes.

Ridder van staven en zwaarden tien! Gedachten ordenen. Je hoofd vol zit met negatieve gedachten, hierdoor wil je het liefst weg rennen omdat het gevoelens boven brengt die niet prettig voelen. Gun jezelf de rust en de ruimte om stil te staan bij je gevoelens en je gedachten. Geef jezelf liefde en buig zo deze gevoelens en gedachten om in positieve gedachten en gevoelens. Ben in het hier en nu en denk liefdevolle gedachten over jezelf. Affirmeer: ik hou van mij. ---------------------- Knight of wands and ten of swords! Organize thoughts. Your head is full with negative thoughts, that is why you would like to run away because it brings up feelings that do not feel good. Allow yoursepf the rest and space to stabd still with your feelings and thoughts. Give yourself love and transform these feelings and thoughts into positive feelings and thoughts. Be in the here and now and think loving thiughts about yourself. Affirm: I love me.

  “Wait till you have kids that behave just like you.” I did. I had the loud one. The sensitive one. The stubborn one. The one who feels everything so deeply it spills out in tears and laughter. The one who needs extra cuddles, extra patience, extra reassurance. The one who shuts down when it all feels like too much. And I realized… that was me. That is me. And suddenly, I saw myself through gentler eyes. I saw how easy it is to love someone like that. How easy it is to be kind. To offer softness instead of shame. To hold space for the chaos and the calm. Loving them helped me learn to love the parts of myself I once tried to hide. They didn’t make me harder to love. They just reminded me I never was.  

  My child doesn’t have to hug you they don’t owe you affection i don’t care if you’re leaving i don’t care if it’s been a long time i don’t care what your title is if it makes them uncomfortable that’s enough of a reason they can wave they can high five they can say hi from a distance but they will never be forced to give access to their body for someone else’s feelings not in my house  

MARILYN MONROE MUSICAL REVISITED "THERE'S NO BUSINESS LIKE SHOW BUSINESS",1954. Irving Berlin's There's No Business Like Show Business is a 1954 20th Century-Fox musical-comedy-drama film directed by Walter Lang. It stars an ensemble cast, consisting of Ethel Merman, Dan Dailey, Donald O'Connor, Mitzi Gaynor, Marilyn Monroe, Johnnie Ray, and Hugh O'Brian. The title is borrowed from the famous song in the stage musical (and MGM film) Annie Get Your Gun. The screenplay was written by Phoebe Ephron and Henry Ephron, based on a story by Lamar Trotti] and the movie was Fox's first musical in CinemaScope and DeLuxe Color. Donald O'Connor later called the film the best picture he ever made. The plot follows the Donahues, led by father Terry (Dailey) and mother Molly (Merman), vaudeville veterans who thrive on performing. Over the years, they add their children into their act, making them the Five Donahues. Tim (O’Connor) is the hoofer with fast-flying fee...

Het oordeel en zwaarden twee! Beslis voor jezelf. Je oordeelt over jezelf. Vraag je eens af waar die oordelen vandaan komen. Door de conditioneringen uit jouw jeugd, doe je iets goed of doe je iets fout? Ook al zegt je hart dat je een bepaalde keuze mag maken, jouw conditionering gaat daar overheen door je gedachten de kant op te sturen die maatschappelijk verantwoord is. Breek door deze conditioneringen en hoor de roep van je hart. Ga naar binnen in jezelf en voel waar jij behoefte aan hebt, waar jij blij van wordt. Affirmeer: ik maak mijn eigen keuze. ---------------------------- Judgement and two of swords! Decide for yourself. You judge yourself. Ask yourself where these judgements are coming from. By the conditioning from your youth, are you doing something right ir wrong? Even though your heart says that you are allowed to make a certain choice, your conditioning is setting it aside by sending your thoughts towards what is responsible from societies point of view. Break through t...

  Officially in my private mama era. No updates unless I choose to share them. No explanations. No justifications. Right now, it’s about protecting my little bubble. Choosing softness over performance. Peace over pressure. My family comes first. Our emotions, our rest, our joy. Our boundaries aren’t up for debate. Not everyone needs a front row seat to our lives. We’re allowed to grow in quiet. To heal in silence. To celebrate privately. Because right now, privacy feels like love. And protecting our peace is the most sacred thing I can do as a mom.  

  “Helen of medicatie” Lief mens welke betekenis draagt genezen voor jou? is dit het opheffen van fysieke pijn, via medicatie? je verlicht voelen vanwege zwaartekracht omarmen? of bevrijding ervaren, door emoties en hartzeer toelaten? Kortom, een keus maken tussen medicatie of werken aan jezelf Waarvoor kies je, als er sprake is van alsmaar fysieke pijn en hartzeer wát voelt dan nog als genezing? alles draait immers om bevrijding mentale ballast met als gevolg vermindering of opheffen fysieke pijn stel je voor nooit meer fysieke klachten, kwaaltjes of pijn dan valt het leven toch plotseling stil waardoor de mens gevoelloos wordt d.w.z. geen vrijheid hebben of verlichting ervaren want pijn lijden wil immers zeggen, bewust worden van jezelf waardoor een innerlijke tocht ontstaat door ’n veld vol trauma’s, blokkades en hartzeer weet, hoe meer ’n mens werkt aan lasten dragen des te meer uiterlijke schoonheid en innerlijke helderheid ervaren wordt De niet Spiritueel ontwaakte mens roept...